SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN WORTHY



It had to be weak chauvinistic men who coined the phrase, "It is weakness for a man to display true feelings and emotions to a woman." I say weak because it represents the lowest and uninformed parts of us, and it makes us believe we are better than or more of someone else. It was in this condition we claimed superiority over the woman and reduced her in nature and importance.

We took that weak thinking of superiority over our women and built civilizations on top of it. This is why the woman, despite her perseverance and steady climb out of that inferior ditch in which we placed her in, continues to be abused, disrespected, and disregarded simply for being a woman.

This is and has always been malicious behavior on the parts of man, and for us to have perpetuated it for so long speaks to the entitlement, cruelty, and frailty of us as men. We must change the culture of how we treat and engage with our women. And I say ours, not to imply that the woman belongs to man as property or some sort of commodity, but ours in the sense that women are worthy of the same level of interest, respect, and admiration God intended when he created us.

And to be truthful, considering the woman has birthed the entire earth, why is it so far fetched to believe God didn't create the woman first or better yet, equal to man? Because since her inception, man has claimed dominance and superiority over her by saying he was first which automatically meant better. Man has claimed to be better in every sense of the word and that has and continues to be, nonsense!

Young boys are trained to think and believe a certain way as it relates to women, but what happens when those boys become men and challenge those beliefs? Because in order to find truth, clarity and a deeper understanding in our lives, we must challenge the things in which our intelligence can no longer blindly accept?

For me, women are amazingly strong, beautiful, and as intelligent as I am and can be. And I bare witness that they are more than capable of building and running shit (for a lack of better words), because they have been doing it for as long as we have. Problem was, we took their strength, ideals, and creativeness and kept them in the shadows. It is truly time for us to stop denying their awesomeness and love and treat them as they have always loved and treated us?

The woman was not brought into existence to walk behind, under, or above us. The woman was brought to help us, as we were brought to help her uncover the purpose in which we were intended to live. The woman was created to be equal with man, but in my opinion, we distorted God's intentions and made the woman subservient.

So, for the record, I love my wife Francine very much, and I want to spend the rest of my life with only her. Truth is, I am not afraid to stand on the mountaintop and share that with the world. No one, and I mean no one can change MY thoughts!

I believe sharing the depth and authenticity of my feelings with Francine made me unbelievably strong, passionately free, and unquestionably wise. The courage to be vulnerable enough with my wife enabled me to be greater when it came to my faith, my purpose and my love.

Francine is the substance that fulfills me and I am indebted to her for all she sacrificed in order to love and care for me. I shall walk with her for as long as I am able to walk, stand with her for as long as I am able to stand, and love her for as long as I am able to love. At 50 years of age, I am completely certain that we were made for each other.

Francine is the woman that unlocked the greatness and humility of my affection, and truthfully, there's not enough words in the dictionary to describe the impact she's had on me. So instead of trying, I will simply say, thank you Francine for being the smile on my face and the source of the amazing love in my heart. I owe you more than I can ever pay back.

In conclusion, love your WOMEN men and share the depth and beauty of your emotions, equality, and sacrifice with her. she is indeed worthy!

Peace

Carlos

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